Remembering Karyn Washington

This post is not going to be about suicide or mental health. I have read enough speculative pieces about Karyn Washington’s emotional state in the days following her passing and I do not wish to add to that canon. Instead, I want to remember how she lived and what a great impact she has had…

Interracial Relationships in the BDSM Lifestyle

A few weeks ago, I read a conversation on Twitter discussing interracial relationships, namely those between White men and Black women. The main issue was related to the latter group being seen as a fetish by the former. It immediately piqued my interest– my very first relationship ever was with a White man. While I…

Coming Up For Air

I haven’t written anything exclusively for this blog in over two months — because I’ve been living — literally. I did not plan on taking a mini break, but it just so turned out that way. It’s 3:30 AM right now and my mind and heart are swarming with emotions, thoughts, fears and ideas. I…